𝐖𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬

We all have parents and if you are able to read this message it’s for no one a discovery!

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As a parent you are well intended and just wish the best for your child, you also swallow the worst because the pre-parent life has never prepared you for that “event” and the course of events that follow the birth of your child.

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𝑆𝑜, 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑡𝑜𝑡𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑑 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑠𝑜 𝑤𝑒𝑙𝑙 𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑑 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑎 𝑛𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑓𝑙𝑜𝑤𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑡𝑜 𝑓𝑢𝑙𝑓𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑐ℎ𝑖𝑙𝑑’𝑠 𝑛𝑒𝑒𝑑𝑠 𝑢𝑛𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑑𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦.

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From that place of love, there is the strong pull to transmit your deepest values, your core belief, your most essential seed of secret you want your child to carry, blossom in and give the fruits you might not have been able to fully bloom into.

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This very well intended thought is called projection and might be in the way of listening to the unique inner call of your child who might just want to take a direction unknown to you, not even on your map, a path not carved yet that could appear dangerous or underestimated to your eyes.

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Isn’t it reflecting your story that you might be programmed to repeat over and over again because it’s what you have been taught from day one and the only thing you know? Transmitting what you know is best.

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And it all comes from love. How strange it leads to...a place of not listening to another being that might have another agenda to fulfill

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𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠?

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Being open to the unknown your child and inner child cries out to be

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Because it all comes down to really listen to yourself first

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And certainly no one to blame on the outside, certainly not your parents because if any mistakes have been made it all comes from a place of love or lack of it.

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You are being taught from day one to listen to someone else

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That's what you know and continue to repeat in its subtle way from a place of love

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It’s possible to give place to the unknown in your life

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𝐼𝑡’𝑠 𝑝𝑜𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑏𝑙𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑠𝑎𝑦 “ 𝐼 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤” 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑒 𝑜𝑓𝑡𝑒𝑛

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It’s possible to ask your toddler : “ Can you show me? “, “ can you explain to me?”, “ can you teach me?” because…”I” don’t know

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Is there a “place in between” that can be your standing point and “I don’t know” the wisest thing to say?

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In that open space, something important can be revealed that doesn’t belong to any school of thought, any group of belief, any polarized position.

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𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐝𝐢𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐚𝐲 “𝐈 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰”?